The King Himself

It is said that all men are dogs, cheaters, and deadbeat fathers, and that they can do no good. Yet, all our fathers, brothers, sons, and uncles seemingly have not made the list. The exclusion of brothers that are carers of their siblings, fathers that take care of their children in the absence of their mothers, sons that play the role of a nurse while their mothers are sick, men that defend the dignity of a random lady in the street, men that are dedicated to the empowerment of a girl child, the list goes on, and yet all of these men seem to be nonexistent in our talks or discussions. Don't get me wrong, in no way am I being naive to the fact that there are such men that have and continue to cause havoc in our society; however, that is a certain percentage and does not comprise of the whole male species. 

 

We spend so much time hating on men that we deny the few or select of the good men and the honour they deserve, just like any human being. Our failure to continually disregard the goodness that exists in some men due to a number of bad, narcissistic, and deadly men continues to leave a toxic trail for the upcoming generation of men.

 

The strength and courage of these men, refusing to become part of the toxic and deadly crowd of men that we daily warn our sisters and girls about, has to be taken note of. I mean, life is about honouring all that is good and beautiful, and I tell you, there is nothing more beautiful than a man maintaining his position as the king he is, despite the pressures of life. 

 

Honouring men is more than just thinking you owe them a thank you; it is an act of appreciation and gratitude for the good they do. Just like any human being, it is important that they feel appreciated and know that what they do matters. It encourages and reminds them that what they are doing is appreciated, making every sacrifice worthwhile. It fuels them to want to do more and continue to put a smile on their loved ones, despite what the world continues to throw their way. Whether received or not, their duty and responsibility still remain. 

 

Therefore, don’t you dare allow the daily association of the rotten select to taint your beauty and greatness and make you step out of your position. Maintain your crown, king; don’t let them define you; don't let the mistakes and foolishness of your fellow men redefine who you are. Let your greatness shine; let it be known that kings still exist, and you are one of them.

 

You are important and of great value to our community. Your greatness lies in your ability to provide comfort and security, your ability to put on a smile, and, at the same time, to make us feel loved and taken care of. King, your time to shine is now—your time to influence—your time to empower and transform lives—your time to be part of the great change the world needs. Don’t let the world bury the greatness in you; arise, King. Take your position. You are a king.

 

Your Are Woman!

You know, we live in a world where women's greatness, beauty, and worth are defined by the next women. In a world where looks, fashion sense, connections, education, race, language, etc. are the criteria for recognition and worth, The ability to cook and clean, how wide your hips are, how thin or how big your butts or breasts are, and continue to allow the women to be the objects on display, with the luring concern in each woman to meet all these standards, or rather unrealistic and superficial demands. The sick culture that continues to threaten a woman's perception of herself and her confidence to be all they are meant to be without fear or shame.

In a society that is filled with people with all sorts of opinions and constant judgments at every decision made, despite the genuineness of it, it is an ever-reminder that no matter what you do or say as a woman, the society already has an established view of you and that people will always have something to say, either good or bad. 

So I am here to tell you this: don't even think about it; don't you dare quit on yourself; allow the foolish and sexist culture to define who you are or rewrite your destiny. I know it's hard, and at times it feels like it will never end. Let me tell you something: we've all been there; we've all felt that feeling of doubt, the pounding and wrecking of nerves. The constant thinking pattern is, "Will I make it? Will it work? Am I good enough? Where will I get the money if I don't drop off those panties and compromise my values and principles? 

With the constant voices, both yours and theirs, I don't know how I will get the job or the tender, "I don't know anyone." I am here to say you will. You might fail at first or even the second or third time, but the truth remains: you will overcome all that's before you and receive all you deserve without destroying the very fiber of who you are. 

Refuse to be part of that ideology and sick culture, one that is determined to look down on women, denying women the opportunity to be themselves without wishing to be a man or acting like one and still be exceptional.

Therefore, queen, celebrate the beauty in your uniqueness and find comfort in the truth that you are the best version of yourself. My queen, you are great and capable of great things, and just like your heavenly Father, you will succeed and excel. It is in your nature to be the best. 

You know, one of my greatest joys in life is seeing women excel in their careers and in life. There is greatness to behold, and the oozing of pride and excitement that comes over me reminds me of how magnificent they are. A clear opportunity to see the queens at work and to marvel at their beauty, caliber, and excellence. 

A species and being of exceptional greatness, and my continual desire to remind them of who they are and what they are capable of. To allow them to step onto a path where they are empowered and transformed so as to discover their divine strength. You Are Woman!

 

You Are A Precious Jewel!

You are great and magnificent in every manner, a true reflection of art and beauty. Each day should be a reminder that this world is indeed blessed to have you and blessed to be associated with such greatness. Each day, queen and king, is an opportunity to impact and influence, to bring about the necessary change. To be the change you inspire, to be the reflection of what hard work, self-determination, and kindness are. Walk in this world with pride and joy, knowing every breath you take is not just for you, your beating heart, your warm body, and your racing mind.

 

Those are all reminders of the greatness that still exists and continues to touch lives. So don't you dare allow people's stereotypes or negative opinions to detect paths for you and guide you; be in charge of your own destiny; and let no one else have that power. My queen, my lady, and my king, Mr., you are that being, that force of nature that yearns for change and transformation in people's lives, a force to be reckoned with. 

Your life is not just mere existence; you do not exist for entertainment, ridicule, or mockery; you exist so that God can be revealed and glorified throughout nations. So let your presence and your smile fill up the room, let it create a sparkle, and remind all that greatness walks amongst them—the very creation of God's majestic hand. Let nothing dim your light. Let Him, the author of your life, be your compass. A reminder that you are enough, not because of anything you have but because of Him, the one who has you backed up. Think about that; let it sink in.....

Are You Intentional? How Being Intentional Can Help You On Your Road to Success.

 

Nowadays, there is a growing social trend and culture that is slowly degrading the importance of hard work and self-development. One that has made people so relaxed and sadly develop the belief that things will be better and improve in their lives, yet there is no real work or change that has been made. In my journey of life, I have learned one of the hardest lessons: that as much as dreaming is important and beautiful, it is simply the first step to where you desire to be. Rather, what really matters is the work you do to ensure you become that. I have met a lot of people who always make comments such as it is so easy for you because you are clever and smart by nature, and I always try to make them see that it is not about that. I am where I am because of the efforts I employ in my everyday life and the decisions I commit to. What they define as simple luck or natural smartness is a work couple with a continual desire to become the very best version of self, commitment, and consistency. We ourselves are working in progress; we have not yet reached our desired selves or who we believe we are truly meant to be. 

So I will ask you this: 

Are you exercising? Do you have enough at your disposal to evoke the fitness you need and require to compete effectively in today's world? Have you taken the time to stretch yourself and discipline yourself to make the necessary sacrifices to ensure growth? If that is the case, then beautiful, for that will do you great justice in reaching that dream you have about yourself, and you should continue at it. 

Personal development and exposure to different information, different places, and different environments have the power to stretch your mind. Become intentional with equipping yourself; get that book and don't just allow it to collect dust on your shelf; read it and allow it to create new habits for you. Broaden your horizons by expanding your knowledge daily and making traveling a habit. Never be afraid to try something new or do something different; continually be on the journey of exercising your mind. 

I truly believe that a lot of our challenges in becoming all we meant to be are in the way our minds perceive the person they reside in and their surroundings, how dormant and restricted they are. Hence, once it has been fed and afforded the opportunity to excel, what we become is greater than anything we have imagined. We have the ability to fly and become a force to be reckoned with. 

What are your thoughts on exercising your mind?

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Writes

 

Let the utterance of my mouth inspire you. 

Flow of my words transform.

Let your ears tap into the thoughts and gaze of my soul.

A glimpse into what lays within me.

 A glimpse of God's workmanship, His masterpiece.

Let the utterance of my mouth inspire you.

 Let my words teach and bring forth understanding.

 Let my words spark greatness within you.

 Evoke strength and courage.

 Allow the utterance of my lips inspire you.

 The scribbling of my hands to bring a little magic.

 To sprinkle the dusts of love and laughter. 

Let my writings denote the mind and will of God. 

His love and mercies.

Let my words communicate freely and securely under the umbrella of love. 

Let the utterance of my lips inspire you.